Hows this for a trip

[Perilaxis]

I think I have a gay stalker..... yea Im being completely serious here. No clue who it is..... apparently they are too shy to say anything to me but they are not too shy to write my name on themselves and then take racy pictures and post them online. I havent been able to see the pictures so Im not even certaian its a guy but the email that was recieved had a creepy gay stalker vibe to it if that makes any sense...... kinda frightened for my health and continued well being over here....

[DC_Desperado]

I can understand being frightened... I know id be scared if someone wanted to diddle my man-hole. This is a serious topic to bring to our attention, and i know some of us (myself included) would prolly make jokes at this topic for a laugh or two... however this should be handled seriously. what other info have you gotten.... you said he emailed you... told you about photos.. yet you have not seen them... or have a link to them.... so the fact of the pictures exsist has yet to be proven.... nor do we have conformation of the emailers gender...

so things that need to be confirmed...
1.) the exsistance of claimed "racy" photos...
2.) gender of "stalker"...
3.) Why now?...

Things that we know...
1.) "Stalker" has theo's email address..
2.) "Stalker" can use a computer/ internet...

well my first suggestion would be to get a new email address... and only tell a controlled group of people.... if the person emails you on that then... make a third one.... and tell no one. if your emailed on the third one... then id clean your computer of spyware/ viruses....

after all steps are taken... then we can proceed further.

[Nocturnal Angel]

I believe Perilaxis told me on the cell phone he had the link it was just taking him back to the registration page.
I agree with dc tho change you email. you might also wanna let a certin some one not know it then again if you let them know it you'll have a control to see if their the one doing it.

it may also be random span but this is too fishy top be that so keep your eye out for people who dont look friendly.

[Child of Flame]

Uhh... if they know your name and are writing it on themselves and then posting racy pictures of it online...that goes waaaaaaay beyond spam. If you haven't seen it yourself, then you should prolly not freak out; an email can be blocked, you can change your email (as the others have suggested)...

If it gets any worse, you should report it to the police, though. "Worse" meaning that you get ahold of those pictures you've mentioned and can confirm that they do know you. Even worse if they find your cell number or something. But for now, I agree with the others that changing your email address should take care of the problem if it is indeed spam.

[Perilaxis]

okay im sorry i havent actually provided the entire story here..... the email was sent to my uncle meaning that this person both knows my full name and how to use that information to find myself and my family but that they dont have my email...... next the email contained a story describing that this person saw me leaving the liquor store last week sometime DC and angel will remember the day i brought the rum so they also know what i look like which means that i prolly have contact with them at some point..... this person wants me to look at the photos and guess who they are (being to shy to approach me directly but having nerve enough to post semi-pornographic images of themselves on the web after writing my name all over themselves or so they say) the site that these are supposedly on os camspaceonline.com there is a registration for age verification that i cant get past the pics are posted under TheodoreandME so if someone else manages to find them please let me know what im dealing with here (other than seemingly obsessed nutjob)....... there are elements within the email (as i have seen a copy of it) that indicate it could be a girl but i know several flaming men that talk and write with those same indicators and me being me ive jumped straight to worst case scenario...... the last line is "haha" so the entire thing could be a joke but I cant think of anyone that has the time energy or raw jackassery to pull something like this.......

[Nocturnal Angel]

are u absolutely positive you know no one that would do this. we know plenty of nut jobs...... it is really strange that stalk you into a liquor store... i believe you bought the rum before gmidge got kick out of my house. so that was like last week or a little before that. its all pretty fishy this is all happing after that big chaotic mess that just went on. hmmm..

[DC_Desperado]

Well... lets take another look at the facts...

1.)he/she saw you buy rum...
2.) has a family members email
3.) claims to be shy yet doesnt act it...

now some questions.... if this is a joke..

1.) Who would know you went to the liquor store....?
2.) who would want to see you afraid/ upset...?
3.) who would know your uncles E-mail...?
4.) have you ever sent out a forward email...?
5.) if it is an email... whats the return email address?

[Perilaxis]

1) just you guys and my mom and dad
2) only one person I can think of and I havent seen her for over 2 years..... still there may be someone I cant think of
3) pretty much my entire family and everyone my uncle has ever worked with..... and prolly his wifes family.... a long list of people to be sure but few on that list know i exsist fewer still know what i look like and fewer still would know my age (liquor store)
4) I barely send normal email I have an email because its required to have a membership on the handful of site I go to including this one and I use my screen name for it
5) the name on it was Glenn Freeman (or was it Freemont) and no im not sure if thats the right spelling no actual address that I could find.....

[Lurid Sorcerer]

I'd probably just ignore the whole thing. Unless you can get a hold of them and tell them that you aren't interested in someone without the "balls" to approach you, I'd stay as far away as possible. The last thing you need is to sign up for some website so a 17 year-old boy who had uploaded nude pictures of himself to the website gets you in trouble with the law.

Until they want to be more forthcoming with information, I wouldn't trust them.

[Torke]

no worries Torke here to the rescue... After looking a few things up it seems other people are having VERY similar problems... here is a complaint from a "Carol"

"Someone e-mailed as my secret admirer. States risques photos of his body is on camspaceonline.com with my name written all over his body. This was sent to my e-mail on Wednesday 1.13.10. I would like to preview the photos."

and

"I too, think this is spam, from some type of porn site. I didn't go to the site.
Mine said anitaandme09."

and

"I looks to be a scam I recieved an email with "FrankandME09" and I see others have recieved similar emails"

hope this helped

[Perilaxis]

that still doesnt explain the liquor store and accurate dates of it but those are valid points damn spam scams

[DC_Desperado]

Excellent detective work Torke!!

[Torke]

Huzzah!!

[DrukenHammer]

Long thermal underwear... then no one can stick it in your bum.

[Lurid Sorcerer]

Geez, I've been wearing some of that just because it's freezing out. I wasn't aware of this other benefit.